Hey again . So what's today ?
Let talk about the insecurity. What is insecurity. its may be containe several catagories. We can say a list of catagories of this insecurities. Just like anyone have by anything like for money, looks, apperance, hair, clothes, house , life, wife, husband, school, college, married life,teen life and soo many things. So what kind of insecurity are you have in your life . Do you think how to get away from this insecurities. How can you deal with it.
In this blog I share you some insecurities from this list and gave you advise to how to get away.
Insecurities of money
The most powerfull insecurities is money . As we know money contain power. And this power can have chance to achieve everything you want. But for some personal they don't have this power of money and they feel some kind of insecurities.
As for example- A woman come from poor family and she married a normal middle class family . She loved by all her in laws. But after few years her brother in law get married and this house now cantain one more family member. In this time her sister in law come from rich family . As she see everyone take care of new one more than her. She felt that it was because she came from rich family. And she personally belongs to poor family everyone loves her because of money. But it's actually wrong.
Solution - as we know that every family members if they are new in our house they take a perfect and special care. So in this case she just got attention because of her new entry in the house not for her money. In some cases they may be for money but if this rich woman is good by nature. So we can say it's perfect care is taken becouse of her money not by her behaviour. But most cases we think too much.
Insecurities of looks
So same as the money, looks does matter. But in some cases don't. As we know everyone in this earth are recognised by there looks. As she have beautiful eyes. She have good smile and so on. Or he have a perfect beard. So it's good if someone have fabulous apprience on them . But about them who don't have this perfect looks . They actually surrounded insecurities. They avoid to hanging out . The avoid making friends. Some time they have fear to confess them in front of there crush. This condition make them become introvert. I am not telling all introvert are not have perfect looks I am just want to say our insecurities make us introvert sometime.
Solution - as you know I have all solutions so what you have to do is to be calm. Take a deep breath. As we know I don't have the good feature on my face but I am a good hearted person. And I am most confidente person. Just chant this mantra.
- After this wear a perfect suitable clothes according to you body type .
- Choose most complimentary color which actually inhance your skin colour and dressing sense.
- Don't use over bright colour and much sparky it's may be looks down your personality.
- Change the way you talk make very attentive words. Add more English word to your vocabolary .
- Don't make joke of anyone's look , apperance, clothes. Its may be down your personality or everyone starting hating you soon.
-always say less listen more. It is very important
That's wjy everyone preferred this sentence for every personal grooming lesson.
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